Friday, June 5, 2009

Matthew isn't growing...

We have two little miracles: Matthew and Clarissa. Clarissa is weighing in at 2lb1oz and 27 weeks but Matthew is weighing 1lb8oz and 23 weeks. They measured him at 22 weeks and they were both right on target and he was measured at 3 days older than she was.

It's been scary the last couple of days because we had a doctors appointment in town on Tuesday at 930. About an hour later we were told we had to be in Little Rock, 3 1/2 hours away in good traffic, Wednesday at 900. I'm very glad for the Telemedicine conferences that they give us here which is how they caught this so quickly. The only problem is they don't know what is wrong with him. It wouldn't be such a big deal but he's also not producing fluid.

We went to Little Rock and they took more ultrasound pictures and video and we had to talk to 2 genetics councilors, 2 specialists, and our referral physicians (3). They won't really tell us anything because they can't figure it out. They wanted to do an Anmiocentesis but Matthew is so small they can't get to him and he doesn't have a lot of fluid anyway. We have to go back next Wednesday for baby EKG's and some other tests.

I was so mad at one of the doctors while we were there because she kept trying to convince us to "act on the behalf of the bigger baby" if anything went wrong. She didn't even look at the old u/s pictures closely enough to remember that he was bigger than her last time! She kept getting the babies confused and asked if he kicked at all. I told her he kicks all the time but they were both being good today so that the doctors could take pictures. (This is very true they never stay still and the u/s techs always have a devil of a time getting them to stay still and not kick the equipment.) She was so surprised when he started moving around and kicking after that she changed her tune and started acting like he wasn't already dead!

They said both babies are developing well and are both viable so if anything happens we can give steroids and deliver them but we're trying to just wait and see. Maybe he'll start growing. My poor little tiny baby! Mommy loves you both!

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